What about name changes after a divorce?

Changing the name confuses people who know both of you and your kids. It’s also a tangible reminder to the kids that the family is gone and you don’t want to acknowledge that part of your life. Changing your kids’ surname to that of your new spouse is one of the dumbest things you can do. However, if you do want to change your married name back to a premarital name, a judge will order it, with no additional charge if you include it in your divorce agreement.