Be aware of your ex’s behavior around you and your children.

You and your spouse will teach your children what to be in a spouse and what to look for in a spouse. Would you want them following your current example or not? Hopefully, you would. Most of my clients can say that. But if not, it is never too late to change course. Put things in your agreement to prevent only those behaviors that you would criticize if a friend did them. A judge will likely approve, as a matter of contract law, the conditions you and your spouse agree to so that your children are protected. If something is not a problem for most people but it is for you, you have to include it to keep your kids safe.