Adult self-esteem and divorce, Part 5

Lack of respect for feelings. There is no such thing as a simple divorce. Emotions, whether from men or women, deserve an outlet in the divorce process. I ask people to include in their divorce agreement the rationale for their decisions. That way, feelings can be honored and a judge or lawyer who reads the document can see why a condition was so important to someone, even if the reason isn’t clear at first glance.